The Proposal

Assalamualaikum, in the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful,

 "Indecent women are for indecent men and indecent men are for indecent women. Decent women are for decent men and decent men are for decent women." (24:26)

Today, I went out for a while, for that while I drove. Well, to be straight up frank, I enjoy hearing to radio, a local radio. Then, there was a program on aired, which addressing an Indonesian artist, who just broke up with her boyfriend recently, and the host encouraged the listeners to call the studio for a simple proposal, just to make a funny morning slot. Yeah, I admit, it was quite funny, how the callers tried to sell themselves, in order to win a certain heart. Her heart of course.

Some of them even said:

"saya sanggup bagi awak apa sahaja, saya boleh buka satu syarikat rakaman untuk awak, saya sanggup bagi cinta saya kepada awak, kahwinilah saya."

and,

"saya ni hensem, saya boleh nyanyi, (he even sang a song, quite good to be honest), saya rambut belah tengah, bla3."

even,

"saya sebenarnye dah lama minat kat A, sejak awak masuk ** lagi. Awak cantik, suara awak sedap. Mak saya pun dah suruh saya kahwin, kita kahwin jelah A."

and many more, all above are some of the examples of how they proposed her. A is a variable unknown.

Suddenly, those conversations triggered this corner of my heart, to call upon the studio. Thanks Allah, for I was driving. Or else, I might be one of those desperate guys out there. Haha. Unfortunately, I haven't had the chance to listen for the whole slot as I have reached home. Actually, the climax of the slot was to invite the artist, and ask her to select the best proposal which might interest her. And maybe ease the tension from the break up incident which occurred to her recently. And I admit, the artist is really good looking, beautiful, and charming. Masya-Allah, don't let her be trial for me. But yeah, she is cute. :)

She is soooo cute.

Haha. Korang google la, sebab saya tak mau letak gambar artis ini, kerana tiada gambar yang appropriate. Actually, what I want to stress about in this post is, not about the cute artist, though it's a fact, but to emphasize why no man proposed like this?

"assalamualaikum ya A, saya ni bukanlah orang kenamaan, tidak juga orang bangsawan. Saya ini hanya hamba Allah yang biasa, boleh jadi banyak kekurangan saya. Tapi, saya boleh baca al-Quran, saya boleh azan, dan yang paling penting saya solat penuh 5 waktu sehari semalam, saya boleh imamkan anda, insya-Allah ada jodoh. Jika tiada sebarang kekangan, izinkan saya berjumpa dengan wali anda, kerana saya ingin bersatu dengan anda secara sah, hingga akhir hayat dan kehidupan seterusnya. Saya harap anda menerima saya seadanya. :)"

Lagu ombak rindu. wahahaha.

Seriously, if any woman may come to reject this type of proposal, she might be the dumbest person ever exist. No offense, even if someone who come before me and said such things, subhanallah, it's like a heaven lies upon us. Of course I want a woman, not a man to propose me like that. What? You think the propose things should be the act of a man? No! No! No! Even Siti Khadijah proposed to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), but in veil, through her close friend. Who said that woman can't possibly rise to propose a guy she attracted to?

I believed, and still am, that every one has their one fate in which their soulmate, the other half by what others called. I pretty sure, I have one out there, who will hold my hands to the bitter end. Insya-Allah. Let's listen to some tazkirah, as it can helps us to find the right one in which suppose to be perfect for us, by His redha.

Wallahua'lam.

"Setiap orang memiliki jodohnya masing2, seperti sungai nil dan mesir juga jodoh." 

gubahan daripada filem ayat2 cinta. :)

"Ya Allah, jika aku jatuh cinta, cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yang melabuhkan cintanya pada-Mu, agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk mencinta-Mu."

my prayers, what's yours? :)

kalau buka pasal cinta & jodoh ni, sampai tahun depan pun tak habis taip. Haha. Illaliqa'. Wassalam.

"Dear Heart, 

fall in love when you are ready,

not

when you are lonely." quoted. :)